Origin and excerpts from the book
The magic of unintentional touch
Will be published in bookshops in Switzerland, Austria and Germany in the next few months.
Origin and aim of the book
My book “Die Magie der absichtslosen Berührung – Von weiblichen Unsicherheiten und Traumata zu gestärktmem Urvertrauen und Heilung”, in which I teach the art of tantric massage, is aimed primarily at women, but also at couples, and has a clear health focus. The positive effects of massages on health are well known. The preventative benefits of regular treatments for well-being have also been appreciated for years.
The instructions that I regularly use in my practice go beyond the usual. This work is unique in that it combines visual representations of both topics, creating a practical, understandable guide that combines healing and application in an impressive way.
Inspired by my passion for classic princesses and fairy tales, bespoke illustrations based on photographs were created by me. These illustrate the complete massage process, including all the holds and movements, and convey the knowledge in a clear and tangible way that makes the practice accessible to readers.
Illustrations offer a timeless, stylish way of presentation and are more pleasing to look at for many people than photos of bare skin, so they create a safe and comforting atmosphere in which readers can visualize and learn the concepts at their leisure.
Illustrationen bieten eine zeitlose, stilvolle Art der Darstellung und sind für viele Menschen angenehmer anzuschauen als Fotos von nackter Haut, sodass sie eine sichere und wohltuende Atmosphäre schaffen, in der die Leserinnen und Leser die Konzepte in Ruhe visualisieren und erlernen können.
I have long made it my goal to make the benefits of tantric massage for physical and mental health known far beyond the circle of women who find their way to my practice. While I started out classically, I now combine the traditional elements of tantra massage with work on the aura and chakra energy field. This allows emotional, mental and energetic blockages to be released in an even more targeted way. This approach enables women to get into a natural flow, open their hearts further and develop their true potential. As a result, they not only regain their quality of life, but also improve their general well-being and health in the long term.
In my book, I introduce readers to the world of tantra teachings, provide information about the anatomy and yoni energy, explain the overall setting required, name the areas of application and give step-by-step instructions, which are accompanied by 101 beautiful illustrations. In my book, I create a relaxed atmosphere and establish profound and soulful rituals that reunite women with their feminine elemental power and allow them to shine as the wonderful female creatures they are.
In the last part of my book, I have integrated a portal to another world – an access to the spiritual level that brings together everything I have learned on my path and everything that defines me. In this section, readers can expect an inspiring journey into the spiritual world. The texts deal with topics such as spatial energy and provide instructions on how to positively influence it.
In addition, we invite the spiritual world together. Visions and experiences of my clients show how powerfully the beings of light from this world come to the rescue and support the healing process. Even if many clients are initially hesitant about this spiritual level, they usually open up to this unique experience – the ‘golden bubble’ – after the second or third session. This openness not only strengthens their healing, but also broadens their perspective on life and their inner strength.
The spiritual part is deliberately placed at the end of the book. I deeply respect the fact that many people need time to open up to the spiritual world. That is exactly what this section is for: it is present, inviting, and everyone can devote themselves to it when the right moment has come. This centerpiece of my work is an energetic invitation to all those who want to open up to the spiritual dimension – at their own pace and rhythm.
My aim is not only for women to perceive themselves as female beings in their entirety, to get to know their own bodies, their own needs and desires better. Rather, I want to guide them so that they can engage in the urgently needed healing process after incisive experiences, such as a difficult birth. At the same time, and this is the unique and truly new aspect of my project, I want my book to initiate a change in thinking. It is intended to guide women to become aware of the shared power of healing and to embrace tantric touch through my guidance. When women find their way into the healing process, it has a direct impact on their physical and mental health.
Many women experience such a strong change for the better that they enter the rest of their lives stronger and develop into a strong and fully-fledged member of society. A woman’s healing cannot be overestimated. Releasing the stressful experiences of the past opens up completely new possibilities for a fulfilled life.
Either the soul sister or the life partner plays a key role in this process. Together, I take everyone involved on this journey, introducing them step by step and guiding them through all the massage techniques. I have experienced in my work with over 600 women that this is possible and how effective it can be
My work as a tantric masseuse with a therapeutic approach has become my true calling. In my massage sessions, I have specialized in healing women. I was able to experience the powerful energies that can be released and how women experience the deep feeling of being perfect just as they are after the first treatment – often after a long time or even for the first time.
With the help of the book, I can guide the soul sister or partner into the role of the masseuse or masseur. With or without the involvement of the yoni and even if the yoni grip is not 100%, they will be able to let the necessary energy flow through their hands, which goes straight to the heart and allows the recipient to feel again that everything is good just as it is. It is truly magical every time. Closely connected, the two merge into one. After just a few massage strokes, when both are in a state of love, this energetic love unfolds its healing effect and is transmitted to the chakras. Accompanied by loving messages from the spiritual world, the recipient can find her way to self-love. For me, this is always a moment of revelation.
At this trusting heart level, it is possible for women to embark on a magical journey into their innermost being in order to heal. They can set out alone or together to practise my therapeutic, gentle, unintentional and loving art of touch, because it is enough to send love and healing through the very simple yoni-cupping touches.
Selected excerpts from the book
I.3 Energy and devotion: the essence of tantric massage
I don’t want to clear up these well-known misunderstandings at this point. For me, orgasm, when it happens, stands for the magical energy that lies dormant within us as we connect in love and mindfulness because we are turning towards the positive. And this is exactly what I want to achieve with my book.
In my opinion, a tantric massage is a sensual, non-intentional full-body massage in which the intimate area can be integrated in a natural way. For me, this is based on the idea that the intimate area is a completely natural and self-evident part of the body, just like any other part of the body.
This intimate part is only special because enormous energy can be generated there – as long as it is included. Humans were created from this energy and so it is natural to involve this area in a (non-intentional) massage, just like any other part of the body.
Unfortunately, many women believe that they can never get an orgasm from someone else and worry a lot about it. Did you know that your yoni simply needs a little more time to warm up sufficiently and be well supplied with blood? This is the only way it can get into a nice orgasmic flow. Many women can only orgasm after a long and extensive yoni massage lasting around 20 to 30 minutes. And please, that’s normal!
During my tantric massages, I therefore do not work towards an orgasm; an orgasm should neither be intended nor provoked by the giver. Nor is it the goal of the tantric massage. The focus of the healing tantric massage is on something completely different: relaxation and absolute well-being.
Nevertheless, it can occur as a result of such a sensual experience. And that is a good thing, because in my eyes it is the expression of a huge source of energy.
In my massages, in which I aim to harmonize body, mind and soul, I have experienced many intense and emotional reactions from my clients. They were able to release years of suppressed feelings. Pain, sadness, anger or even emotional emptiness came to the surface. They were able to cry and release themselves through loud screams. In these moments, a tremendous energy is generated, the transformation process can begin and healing takes place.
So you can’t avoid working through these feelings. They push themselves forward a little and want to be seen first before desire can even fill this space. So take your time and don’t force anything. Just allow yourself to heal so that you can become the best version of yourself. Become completely one with yourself and your femininity.
Perhaps this loving homage will open your portal to another dimension. Many of my clients go on a spiritual journey. They take their soul with them during a yoni massage. Through the touch you enter an incredibly calm, meditative state. This allows your spiritual team to take your soul with them to show you visions, messages, a past life, ancestors and other beings. This is such an incredibly beautiful, enriching and healing feeling.
Having an orgasm after such a journey is rather unlikely, but an orgasm can be the tipping point to open your portal to another dimension through the powerful energy so that you can go on a journey at all. Additional insights from this magical world await you in the spiritual part.
But before the tantric massage can unfold its fascinating effect, the trauma has to be brought out. Let’s take a closer look at what trauma is and what deep wounds it can cause.
II.2 Deep wounds and their effects
There are different forms of trauma, but they all leave deep wounds that you cannot see at first glance. They lie hidden in your innermost being.
The following traumas and after-effects are based on stories from my clients. Please note that it does not claim to be exhaustive – I am reporting from my personal expertise. The stories range from young women to ladies over 70 and reflect the diversity of all age groups. Therefore, as a younger woman, you may find some of the experiences peculiar as they may not be of your generation. At the same time, you may recognize the experiences of your mother or grandmother in these stories and, conversely, as an older woman, come across descriptions that you may associate more with younger generations.
- Loss of libido
- Attachment disorders and difficult relationship patterns
- Sexual abuse (in childhood)
- Female genital mutilation (FGM)
- Sexualization of society
Society
Education
Role model
Personal development
Sex as a duty beyond any neediness
Away from self-sacrifice to unconditional YES
Rape victim - Being a mother
- Unfulfilled desire to have children
- Loss of a child
- Shame
Fig. 11
Now kneel down so that the recipient can lean her entire back against you, supporting her head. Perhaps you can use this hand to massage her head slowly and gently so that she can let go of the last of her tension. Place your other hand on her heart and let your love flow.
At this point, it may well be that the recipient starts to cry because this is a loving and secure hold that radiates something maternal (especially if this was lacking in their own childhood). Many people can let their tears flow better in this position because they are not looked at directly. It is easy for them to let themselves fall into this secure and loving embrace.
You can feel when the moment has come for you to pull off the lunghi (open the button) so that the recipient can lie down on her stomach.
Fig. 27
Here we are at a good point to get a little playful with these little fringes and the scarf. Let your imagination run wild.
Let the fringes glide very slowly over the entire body, graze along the flanks, flit over the buttocks and the buttocks crease. Glide over the arms and legs, but leave out the feet, as most people are too ticklish in this area. I tend to stay there with the scarf rather than the fringes. Your intuition will guide you. Alternate between the scarf and the fringes and vary the speed, but stay very slow. Maybe let the scarf and fringes glide briefly over your own leg so that you can feel how nice it feels, then giving will be even more fun 😉
Fig. 71: Grip 1: Yoni cupping – a loving grip
I recommend starting with this grip. This is where the preheated lubricant comes into play. It is advisable to fully extend your arm. If you keep it bent during the yoni massage, it will feel heavy after a short time.
This grip is a tender gesture of honor: your warm hand encloses the entire yoni with lots of love. You can place your other hand on the heart chakra to send even more love. Stay in this position for as long as it feels comfortable and relaxing for you.
You can use this hold at any time, even if you are thinking about which hold you want to perform next.
Illustrations
For almost a year, I worked with Miguel Solórzano of GueloStudio in Costa Rica. Using genuine photos of me from the Tantra-massage ritual, he transformed them into artworks brimming with depth, magic, and heart.
My photos are digitally retouched, reinterpreted, and gently carried into a dreamlike realm. Photoshop serves solely as his digital canvas: every line and hue springs directly from his artistic intuition, so his unique signature remains palpable in each piece. For each artwork, Miguel devoted between two and five hours of pure creative time. Starting from my reference photo, he sketches, colors, and refines every detail entirely by hand—no filters, no automation.
Through this deliberate handcrafting, an organic, living whole emerges—something only a human artist, guided by empathy and intuition, can achieve. At the same time, he weaves in a layer of spiritual, emotional magic, so that the process transcends mere mechanics and becomes a heartfelt, soulful creation.
From those real images, 101 fairytale-like scenes were born, evoking enchanted fantasy worlds inspired by the animations I adore.
Must-haves for your tantra ritual
Music as support
Music is one of the oldest forms of medicine. Like us, it consists of vibrations and manages to change our vibrations through its sound waves. The best music can therefore support the receiver in her healing process, and the giver can also benefit from the music. Because you can let yourself be guided by it and let your hands dance to the waves of sound over the receiver. It is easier for you to find your way out of your thoughts, your vibration increases and you can connect better with your intuition and, if necessary, with the loving spiritual world.
The power of hydrogen and frequencies
This same ancient wisdom applies to the transformative power of water with the power of frequencies. Water is essential for our wellbeing. Hydrogen plays an important role in transporting water into the cells and has antioxidant effects. The more hydrogen we have in the body, the better it can fight free radicals. Improving general health and reducing stress factors can be beneficial to well-being. As the smallest element in the universe, hydrogen penetrates deep into the cells and opens the doors of the cells so that nutritional supplements are also better absorbed.
Molecular hydrogen can help to promote general wellbeing, as stress often acts at a cellular level. Frequencies can also be used to influence energetic processes in the body. Certain frequencies generate energy and vitality (yang energy), while others help to reduce the process of oxidative stress (yin energy).
Oil recommendations
I massage with high-quality organic coconut oil, which is extracted from fresh coconuts that grow wild and organically in the Philippines. Not only is this a great choice for skin care, it is also a natural product and therefore safe for the yoni. Another advantage of the oil is that it moisturizes, nourishes and heals. The reason for this is that the special fatty acids in coconut oil have an antibacterial and wound-healing effect.
In addition, this oil is part of a project in the Philippines. Every time I use this oil, I support this project and thus contribute to the promotion of sustainable cultivation and the local community. Furthermore, the oil is produced by a women-run company from Appenzell in Switzerland, which is committed to sustainability and natural products of the highest quality.
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